The Faithful Man · Where Do You Actually Stand?

I. The Problem & The Framework

You already know something is off.

You show up to church on Sunday. You've read some of the books. You can say the right things when another guy asks how you're doing.

If you are honest with yourself, there are parts of your life where you are coasting. Maybe more than parts. You don't have a real budget. You haven't been in the Word consistently in weeks. You've got a sin pattern nobody knows about. You feel vaguely useful at work and vaguely hollow everywhere else, and you cannot remember the last time you felt like the man you thought you would become by now. If you're married, you can't remember the last time you asked your wife a serious question. If you're single, you know the formation work you keep intending to start. Either way.

Here is what your audit is actually measuring. The call to walk with God on an ordinary Tuesday. To work with integrity and give on purpose. To be present where you are. To love the people Scripture says you're responsible for — your wife if you have one, your children if you have them, your brothers in either case. None of that got rescinded because life got loud. It is the same call. You just stopped hearing it as a call.

Here's what nobody tells you: this isn't a character problem. It's a coordinates problem. You've been trying to navigate without a map. Books give you inspiration. Conferences give you conviction. Men's groups give you accountability without a target. Nobody gives you a score. The Faithful Man is the score.

The problem isn't that you're a bad man. The problem is that you don't have a framework, a score, or a plan. You have guilt.

The Faithful Man, p. 4

The Domain Framework

The audit scores you across the biblical domains Scripture actually holds a man responsible for, built to your life stage. Single and not yet a father gets a different set than the married man with four kids. Both get 7 questions per domain, behavior-specific and time-bound. You can't fake your way through it. You either did the thing in the last 30 days, or you didn't.

01GodScripture, prayer, church, the private walk nobody sees
02BodySexual integrity, sleep, training, the brother who knows
03MindReading, theology, attention, what is forming you
04WorkVocation, money, provision, generosity
05BrotherhoodReal friendship, mentors, accountability
06PartnerPursuing and loving your wife as Christ loved the church (married)
07ParentRaising children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (fathers)
08PresenceActually there, not just accounted for (husbands and fathers)
09Future HouseholdPurity now, the man you are already becoming (single, dating, divorced, widowed)

III. What's Inside

The full system. Built to be worked.

No. 01

The full adaptive audit

35 to 56 questions tailored to your life stage and season. Radar-chart scoring and your personalized weak-domain report. Re-take every 90 days to track real movement.

Comparable assessments $50 – $200
No. 02

The personalized 30-Day Plan

Scoped to your specific two-weakest pair. Day 1 names the pattern. Days 2 to 14 work the lower of the two. Day 15 is a halfway re-score. Days 16 to 29 work the second. Day 30 you re-take the audit and compare radar maps.

A counseling session $150
No. 03

Your Pair Scripture Bank

The scripture for the two domains your audit named as your relatively weakest, in one PDF. Verses for prayer, verses for study, verses that hold the gospel under the work.

A study Bible's domain index $30
No. 04

The 9-Domain Framework Brief

A focused guide to the nine domains Scripture actually holds men responsible for, plus Peacemaker as the posture threaded through them, and why a diagnostic beats another pep talk.

A serious Christian book $25
No. 05

The Companion Pack

The full reference library. Nine domain devotionals and nine scripture banks, one per domain. The library you return to when the radar map shifts.

A year's devotionals $60
No. 06

The Scripture Memory System

27 anchor verses, three per domain. The 5-Day Rhythm method. A deck of 27 printable cards plus a closing Invitation card. Not a reading plan you abandon. A reference you return to.

A memory app, annually $40
No. 07

Lifetime access & free updates

Pay once. Re-take the audit every quarter. Free updates as the system is refined.

Bonus

If you bought each piece separately

$505+

IV. Founding Readers

The testimonials are not here yet.

The founding-reader cohort is working the 30-day plan now. When real men come back with specific, verifiable shifts, this section gets rebuilt. Until then, this is empty on purpose.

The men's-ministry lane is full of testimonials that read like marketing brochures. Vague feelings. Generic shifts. No way to verify any of it. I would rather ship a page with an honest gap than fill it with quotes you cannot trust.

If you are one of the first hundred men through the course, your feedback after thirty days is what this section will hold. Real specifics. Real names if you give permission. Real before-and-after radar maps.

Want to be one of them? Get the course. Email me at Day 14 and Day 30 with what shifted.

V. Who Built This

About Dan.

I'm Dan Taylor. Reformed Anglican pastor in Ontario. Husband. Father. For the last five years I have sat across from men in my study, in coffee shops, in church basements after the service ends.

The men I meet are not checked out. They are trying. They have read the books and attended the retreats and made the resolutions. And they keep showing up with the same look on their face. They do not know what to fix because nobody ever gave them a way to measure where they actually stand.

I built The Faithful Man for those men. It is the diagnostic I wished I had to hand them. A score and a plan, not a pep talk. If that's what you have been needing, I would be glad to put it in your hands.

Dan Taylor
Pastor · The Faithful Co.

VI. The Offer

You've seen the framework. Now buy it.

60-day guarantee. Complete the 30-day plan. If you can't point to measurable growth in at least one domain, email for a full refund. You keep every file.

The Faithful Man · Complete Course

Diagnostic, personalized plan, and a year of reference material.

$97 $67

One-time payment · Lifetime access · Bundle compared to $505+ of separate parts

The adaptive full audit (35–56 questions) with radar-chart scoring
Your personalized 30-Day Plan, scoped to your two relatively weakest
Your Pair Scripture Bank, the scripture for those two domains in one PDF
The 9-Domain Framework Brief
The Companion Pack, the full library of nine devotionals and nine scripture banks
The Scripture Memory System with printable cards
Lifetime access & free updates

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Secure checkout · Instant delivery · 60-day guarantee

A Christian counsellor runs $120–180 a session. A men's retreat is $200–400 for a weekend. This is $67, once, with lifetime re-takes.

Sixty-day better-than-money-back guarantee

Complete the 30-day plan. If you can't point to one domain where you've measurably grown, email us inside 60 days for a full refund. And keep every file. The audit, the framework brief, the 30-day plan, the Companion Pack, the memory system. Yours to keep. I'd rather refund a man than keep money from a tool that didn't work for him.

Not Ready for the Full Course?

Fix your weakest domain first. $7.

The Single-Domain Starter

Get the 7-day starter pack for your lowest-scoring domain. A specific orientation, a week of devotionals, and the scripture bank for that one domain. Enough to start closing one gap before you commit to the full course.

A "where to start" orientation specific to your weakest domain
The 7-day devotional for that domain
The scripture bank, with one-line application notes
$7 credited toward the full course if you upgrade

Start With One Domain · $7

Less than a coffee. $7 credited if you upgrade later.

VII. Honest Answers

Questions you're probably asking.

I'd rather price it so a man can buy it without negotiating with his wife about whether it's worth $300. The math: if the 30-day plan moves you in even one domain, $67 was the cheapest investment you made all year. A counselling session runs $120 to $180. A men's retreat is $200 to $400 for a weekend. This is $67, once, with lifetime re-takes and a 60-day guarantee.

Yes if you:

Take the Bible seriously and don't want therapized spiritual-manhood fluff.
Have read some Christian books on manhood but can't point to anything measurable that changed.
Are tired of the false choice between soft-evangelical "be nicer" content and online-bro "lift heavy and dominate" content.
Want a diagnostic, not a pep talk.
Are willing to face an uncomfortable score if it means knowing exactly what to work on.

Single or not yet a father? The audit adapts. Five core domains (God, Body, Mind, Work, Brotherhood) apply to every man. The audit then activates the domains that match your season: Future Household if you're single or dating; Partner and Presence if you're married; Parent and Presence if you have kids. No domain is scored that doesn't belong to your life yet.

Not for you if: you want affirmation without honest assessment, you think there are no objective biblical standards for men, or you're looking for a ten-step path to becoming an alpha. This course will frustrate you.

No. Most men's-ministry content is either shame-based ("you're failing your family") or vague ("be a man of God"). This is a diagnostic with a score and a specific next step. You'll know exactly where you stand and exactly what to do in the next 30 days.

Faithful biblical Christian. Jesus is Lord. The framework rests on what Scripture actually says about a man before God and before the people he's responsible for. Christ is the head of every man. The husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. Fathers raise their children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Single men are responsible for their own formation now — the habits and character that carry into whatever God has next. If that lands as good news, you'll feel at home. Grace before effort, not effort to earn grace.

No. The audit adapts to your life stage. You answer two questions at the start and the audit builds your specific domain set. Five core domains (God, Body, Mind, Work, Brotherhood) apply to every man. The rest are activated based on what Scripture actually holds you responsible for in your season: Future Household if you're single or dating; Partner and Presence if you're married; Parent and Presence if you have kids. No domain appears that doesn't belong to where you actually are.

The free 6-question check-in: 5 minutes. The full adaptive audit (35 to 56 questions depending on your life stage): 30 to 45 minutes. The Framework Brief: 30 to 45 minutes to read once. The 30-Day Plan: 15 minutes a day for one month, scoped to your two relatively weakest domains. The Companion Pack (devotionals, scripture banks, memory system) is a reference library you return to. The audit is meant to be retaken every 90 days.

The personal course is built for individual use. If you want to run this with a group of men at your church, email us. We're putting together a Group Leader Kit (facilitator guide + group license + discussion prompts) and can let you know when it's ready, or work out a group license in the meantime.

Most men score low in 3 to 5 domains on their first audit. That's normal and expected. The course doesn't ask you to fix everything. It asks you to work on your two weakest domains for 30 days. That's it. Growth is measurable and sequential, not heroic.

You're not a bad Christian man. You just don't have a score.